We are sometimes so focused on the other person that we tend to forget about ourselves. And I’m not saying that giving someone your best, or your all is wrong. But giving someone your best while giving yourself absolutely nothing is heartbreaking. You simply can’t neglect yourself in hopes that you’ll find happiness in someone or something else. Relationships are beautiful, they are therapeutic, it is wonderful to know that you are being loved and cared for, however, loving yourself is the ultimate and the first step in living a beautiful life. You are the only person who is going to stick by your side until the very end. So, your relationship with yourself should be your priority. And just so you know, being unsatisfied and unhappy usually comes from a place of self-neglect. It’s not the other person, it’s not a relationship, it’s not the way that you were being loved, it’s you. It’s about you, it’s about the relationship with yourself and it’s about the way you love yourself. So…do you love yourself enough to love that person you are holding so tight to?
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